YOU CANNOT
COMPARTMENTALIZE YOUR SEXUALITY. You cannot
live a double life. You cannot pretend
to be one thing and be driven by the complete opposite. You cannot be driven by sex to fill the empty
parts of your life and then deny your desires and fantasies when the arousal is
gone. You can not lie to yourself. You must embrace the light and the dark
within you and understand that our sexuality is a gift, not an act to merely
experience a nut. You have to know that
whatever it is that gets you off is OK to feel or otherwise it will consume you
like a cancer and you will never be free from you demons. That is precisely why I am fanatical about
speaking truth to power, embracing all sides of myself, being comfortable with
the skin I'm in so that I don't go out and do something stupid that will
endanger my life or wreck havoc on the lives of other's. You don’t have to tell the world your sexual
secrets but you at least have to be honest with yourself. We don't have to be perfect in this
life. Life does require that we must be
authentic and true to ourselves, however.
When you are ashamed of your sexuality, you cheat, lie, you do dangerous
and unhealthy things and then you put on a face like you are perfect to the
world. I’m here to say that it will bite
you in the ass in the long run. This I
promise. I’m Scottie Lowe and I approve
of this message.
3 comments:
Wisdom indeed. A great lesson and a wholly inescapable truth, especially for a white sub male such as myself.
No other way to say it, but what you shared is is a doorway toward the light ... if one eventually hopes to be a well-adjusted, healthy and loving person.
Having compartmentalized not only my sexual desires, but nearly everything in my life for years ... decades ... i can testify that ultimately compartmentalization is an exercise in futility.
There is a place where dark fantasies and secrets are dashed upon the rocks of reality ... that place is AfroerotiK.
I thought you said you were going to pay me the money you owe me.
I approve this message.
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