Erotic provocateur, racially-influenced humanist, relentless champion for the oppressed, and facilitator for social change, Scottie Lowe is the brain child, creative genius and the blood, sweat, and tears behind AfroerotiK. Intended to be part academic, part educational, and part sensual, she, yes SHE gave birth to the website to provide people of African descent a place to escape the narrow-mined, stereotypical, limiting and oft-times degrading beliefs that abound about our sexuality. No, not all Black men are driven by lust by white flesh or to create babies and walk away. No, not all Black women are promiscuous welfare queens. And as hard as it may be to believe, no, not all gay Black men are feminine, down low, or HIV positive. Scottie is putting everything on the table to discuss, debate, and dismantle stereotypes in a healthy exchange of ideas. She hopes to provide a more holistic, informed, and enlightened discussion of Black sexuality and dreams of helping couples be more open, honest, and adventurous in their relationships.

Showing posts with label anal sex. Show all posts
Showing posts with label anal sex. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 06, 2016

Butt Fucking

My boyfriend and I both LOVE anal sex.  And when I say we love it, I know that I can’t get enough of it and he’s an anal enthusiast to say the least.  I’m not submissive, I just adore a big, juicy, hard dick in my asshole.  If I had my way, I could take a dick in my ass every day, twice a day if I had the chance.  Gregory, on the other hand, likes to keep a little variety in our sex lives so he has me on anal restriction.  I can only get butt fucked twice a week so I have to ration it out until I’m desperate for it and I can’t take it anymore. 

Gregory can always tell when I when it’s “my time” because I start getting a little more frisky.  While we’re fixing dinner, I’ll be sure to rub my ass against him a little more than is necessary.  I find lots of opportunities to bend over so he can see the ass that still makes his head turn, even after two years of being together.  It usually backfires on me because by the time he starts grabbing my ass and rubbing his hard dick against me, I’m ready to let dinner burn, bend over the counter, and beg him to slam his dick in my horny backdoor. 

If I make it through dinner, and maybe even a little TV or music afterwards, I’m pretty anxious to get to the main event.  We’ve gotten into a little routine.  First, Gregory will give me an enema.  There’s nothing like raw, natural ass fucking, earthy, musky, and dirty the way it’s supposed to be.  And trust me, there have been plenty of times when I can’t wait and I have to have him in my ass without any preparations.  But Gregory just fits better and goes deeper when we take extra precautions. 

I love the whole cleaning process.  There’s something so arousing and erotic about being so completely vulnerable when someone else is giving you an enema.  When I feel that tubing go in my ass, I get turned on beyond belief.  Gregory likes to make it really intense for me so he’ll be sure to rub my clit and play with my nipples and whisper all sorts of delicious and nasty things he’s going to do to me while the water is filling me up.  I am such a freak for anything in my ass so I love the feeling of the water filling me up.  He massages my stomach and slides the nozzle in and out, driving me fucking insane with lust and making my pussy literally dripping wet with desire.  The need to get fucked and fucked really hard, however, is greatest in my ass to be sure. 

While I’m taking care of business in the bathroom and showering up quickly, that’s Gregory’s time to get out lube, toys, videos, and whatever else we might need.  By the time I’m back in the bedroom, Gregory’s desire for anal play has taken over and he’s usually as hard as a rock.  That’s excellent for me because I don’t need much foreplay when it comes to getting my ass reamed. 

I get to decide what position I want it in.  My favorite, not surprisingly, is on my knees.  It feels animalistic and primal to have that thick meat sliding in and out of my ass from behind like that.  Don’t get me wrong, I’ve ridden Gregory’s dick with my asshole until he was sore, and I get off on seeing his face when I’m on my back, holding my legs up, while he’s pumping hot cum in my ass from above.  But any true anal lover will tell you, there’s nothing better than getting that dick in you doggy style, face down, with him grabbing my hips and ramming it home, until I’m screaming and cumming and passing out from pleasure. 

When I climb on the bed, I get into position and reach back with both hands so I can spread my asscheeks and he applies the lube.  Most times, he’ll start out by licking my ass first, sticking his tongue in it and getting it nice and wet.  I swear, with his saliva, my pussy juices, and my unashamed NEED for him in my ass, I don’t need any lube whatsoever but he always insists.  By the time he’s finished working the lube in my ass with his thick, strong fingers, I’m so horny to get my ass fucked I can’t take it anymore and I’m usually screaming, “Stop teasing me, fuck me in my asshole, ram your big hard dick in my ass now, damn you.” 

You know that feeling, when the head of that dick slides in your asshole, that feeling of out-of-this-world pleasure?  Well, it’s that feeling that drives me crazy. Say what you want but I can take a dick in my ass better than any man can.  I like it deep, hard, and long and I always end up begging for more.  And Gregory knows how to deliver.  He’ll take his time at first, working every inch of that dick inside me, pushing past my anus until he’s deep in my colon.  GOD, I love that feeling and I could stay like that all night.  I can’t keep still long enough for that so I end up fucking him back, letting him know that I can take more. 

By the time he and I have gotten into a nice rhythm, he’s pulling out all the way to the head, and slamming his dick balls deep back in my ass.  That’s when I’m in my zone and I can’t get enough and I cream all over.  He tells me my shithole belongs to him and I have to bury my face in the pillow to keep from screaming.  It’s only when he slams it back in, and he’s pounding me, fucking me, thrusting every inch of his massive dick in my asshole, only when he’s pumping my ass full of that hot cum that I’m satisfied.  I cum all over his belly, coating his balls and thighs with my juices as I feel his softening dick slide out of my gaping butthole and know that I have to wait another three or four days until I can get satisfaction again. 

Copyright 2008 AfroerotiK

Tuesday, July 05, 2016

Promises, Promises

Being a bachelor is great, right?  You can do what you want, come and go as you please, with no one to answer to.  There’s a side to living the single life that a lot of guys don’t like to talk about however.  If you’re not the type of brotha who’s a playboy, with hot, nympho supermodels coming in and out at all hours of the night, if the majority of your sex comes from a computer screen and not a human being, life can be really lonely for the single guy. 

That was the sad reality for Chase.  He worked 9 to 5 or so at an insurance company at a job that was so incredibly boring that he contemplated running away to Rio every morning during his daily commute.  He couldn’t really complain too much, he got away with doing as little work as possible and got paid well enough to go on vacation, party, save a little, and live comfortably.  He wasn’t ugly, he was attractive by most standards, but he just wasn’t the sort of guy that felt comfortable going out picking up random chicks.  He could if he applied himself to the effort but it just didn’t seem worth the drama. 

It was the ride home from work where Chase’s inner sexual demons started taunting him.  Living alone, Chase had become addicted to masturbation. He felt guilty about the fact that he felt like he was enslaved to his raging sexual desires.  Sitting in bumper-to-bumper traffic, he made a deal with himself.  “I’m not going to do it tonight.  Yeah, I’m not going to do it for another month, starting today,” he affirmed aloud. 

Arriving home, Chase headed straight for the bathroom.  Pulling out his dick, he let loose with a stream of hot urine into the bowl.  It felt good to piss and before the strong yellow stream finished, his dick was getting wood.  He stroked it a little and pulled his balls out and started rolling them in his fingers.  Catching a glance of himself in the mirror, the guilt hit him and he stopped before he got too carried away. 

Getting out of his suit and putting on some comfortable sweats, Chase was free to fix dinner.  Well, he ordered take-out because he had never even used his stove before.  Committed to his vow, he sat down to watch TV while he ate his buffalo wings.  He hadn’t even been home for an hour before he started getting anxious.  “I’ll just log on, check my email, and log off,” he said to himself, knowing that it was the Internet that was his downfall.

Before he could even open up a browser, he got an IM from one of his buddies saying, “hey whaz up u gonna cam 2nite?” 

“Nah, not tonight,” he replied before he went invisible.  He checked his email and other than notification that an ousted Nigerian parliamentarian was seeking his assistance in getting $2 million bucks out of the country, he didn’t have any emails.  He checked his MySpace and Black Planet pages, wrote about how much he hated his job on his blog, and he didn’t see a reason not to check his Xtube page while he was at it.  The temptation was just too great and he checked out some of the recently added videos.  He watched a few women getting pounded hard in the ass while he played with his nipples, twisting and rubbing them.  There couldn’t be any harm in checking out a few tranny vids, could there?  Before he knew it, Chase had been watching porn for two hours and his dick was as hard as a rock and he was stroking it with his favorite lotion for lube.  He’d been teasing himself the entire time and he was desperate to cum.

He struggled within himself.  He didn’t want to go back on his vow but he was so horny, so turned on.  He felt ashamed of himself, and guilty.  It was almost as if his lust controlled him when he was in this sort of aroused state.  Now, completely naked, he was fingering his ass and didn’t give a damn about the empty promise he’d made to himself. 

He went to his closet and got out all of his toys.  Chase had a collection of dildos that went from small butt plugs he could wear under his suits at work with no one the wiser to gigantic, humongous, enormous dildos that didn’t look like human beings could take them.  They ranged in color from light cocoa to the darkest of ebony.  His dick leaked precum at the very thought of feeling those huge, fake dicks penetrating his ass. 

Part of his arousal was feeling the shame.  He felt dirty and abnormal for loving things shoved up his ass but that turned him on as well.  He was terrified he was the only brotha in the world who loved women, loved pussy, loved fucking but also loved feeling his asshole stuffed with hard, huge fake dicks.  When he was aroused like this, his ass had a mind of it’s own.  He couldn’t count how many times he’d thrown every dildo he owned away, promising to never do it again, only to wind up a few weeks later, replacing all the ones he’d discarded and buying even more to add to his collection.  He just couldn’t come to terms with the fact that his asshole would get as horny as a pussy, throbbing and desperate to be filled, fucked savagely, and left gaping open. 

As hard as he tried, he couldn’t go more than three or four days without it.  Something in him took over and it was all he could think about.  He had a ritual.  He went from small to large, talking to himself out loud the entire time.  “Ohh, that’s it.  Ohhh, it feels so good going in my tight hole.  Mmmm, I can feel the head of that dick stretching my anal ring, sliding in deep.  Damn, I love feeling that thick shaft in me.”  He didn’t even have to touch his prick, it leaked on it’s own.  When he did jerk his stiff, hard erection, he craved the feeling of a big, hard dildo deep, deep inside him.  He loved feeling slutty and by the time he was in the zone, he as out of control with his fantasies.  “Fuck yeah, fill my pussy with that hard meat.  Give it to me, fuck me with that big dick.” 

Truth be told, he was crazy for the feeling of being penetrated but he was terrified of being bisexual.  Those fears seemed to disappear when he was fucking himself; he got off in those moments of depravity by thinking of himself as a faggot gangbang slut, taking on four and five dudes at a time, being used, driving them crazy with his insatiable asspussy that couldn’t be satisfied, that would drain them of their cum and be ready for more. 

By 11:00, Chase was deep in his nightly routine and he was ready for the 13-inch dildo in his ass.  It was over four inches thick at the base and as black as night.  He positioned the base on the wall and got on his knees.  He teased himself by rubbing it up and down his ass crack and over his balls.  He liked teasing himself, pretending that he had to beg for it like a filthy whore.  His asshole was throbbing with desire and he heard himself moan as he backed up on the head.  For Chase, that was one of the most intense feelings, feeling that thick head pop in his hole.  He taunted his fantasy lover, “Oh yeah, does that feel good?  You like the way my tight, wet, hot pussy makes you feel?”  He backed up on the dildo and felt every inch as it went deeper and deeper inside.  Luckily, he’s laid out some towels on the floor because by the time he’d worked that entire dildo in his ass, he’d pissed himself and it felt damn sexy. 

The feeling of fullness was indescribable.  Chase wished he could stay like that forever, with that huge dildo deep in him, filling him, keeping him on the edge of pleasure and satisfying a need in him to be filled.   He grabbed another dildo and shoved it in his mouth, sucking it like only a cheap whore could.  He wanted two real dicks filling him, making him take every inch.  In his mind, he was a cum slut, bareback bitch, getting hot cum pumped in him from both ends.  Chase was like an animal, sweating and moaning and fucking himself like crazy.  He worked every inch of that thick dildo in his ass and wiggled that ass like a stripper to work it deeper.  He got into a rhythm where he would take it all the way out to the head and slam back on it hard, causing himself to moan out in pleasure as he fucked himself over and over again.  When he felt himself getting close to cumming, he stopped; prolonging the pleasure was such an intense high he didn’t mind only getting a few hours sleep at night in order to scratch that itch in his mancunt. 

When he lay on the bed, with his legs in the air, he could see the dildo going in and out of his pussy in the mirror.  He loved looking at his sexy brown hole gape open, imagining loads and loads of hot cum dripping from it.  He found himself on more than one occasion licking and sucking a dildo directly from his ass, tasting his manly ass juices and shoving it back in only to lick and suck it again.  He talked to himself in the mirror, “Look at you.  You are so nasty.  Look at you cleaning that filthy dick straight from your shithole.  Mmm, it tastes so good.” 

When he knew he couldn’t take it anymore, when he knew he was about to explode with cum, he turned on his web cam, mounted his favorite, curved dildo to his chair and gave a show for anyone who wanted to see.  His fans loved seeing him ride that thick dildo as much as they loved seeing him stroke his own impressive dick.  Every time that curved dildo hit his spot, he would moan like a bitch.  “Fuck yeah, I love feeling that big hard dick in my pussy.  I’m such a faggot slut.  I can’t get enough.  I’m addicted to feeling that thick, hard shaft shoved in me.  I need it deeper, harder.”  The muscles in his thighs flexed and he jerked his erection in time, hard and fast.  “I’m such a fucking cumwhore.  I love getting fucked in my ass.  Shit, fuck me. Fuck, it feels so fucking good.  Goddamn bareback pussy boi whore who can’t get enough.  Fucking fag boy who loves getting fucked.  Dirty, nasty shithole slut, getting that hot, thick dickmeat where I need it.  Come on, can’t you fuck me any harder than that?  Use this tight manpussy, rip it open.  Oh god, I can’t take it, I’m going to cum.  Shit . . .  Fuck . . . Damnnnnnnn!!!!  Oh fuck, I’m cumming.” 

Cleanup was a bitch.  The last thing he wanted to do at 3 in the morning was to wash up and put everything away in its hiding place.  He knew if he didn’t, Chase knew that if he didn’t put everything away then and there, that when he came home from work later that evening, that he would be too tempted to do it again.  And this time made a promise to himself that he wasn’t going to do it again for at least another month. 

Copyright 2008 AfroerotiK

Wednesday, November 19, 2014

The Gay Male Gene has been Identified!

If, as my most devout and delusional homophobes assert, ONLY gay men experience pleasure when stimulated anally, wouldn't that mean that there is a gay gene or specific homosexual nerve endings or some biological and/or anatomical source of said anal pleasure that can be identified scientifically and we can dispel this stupid idea that homosexuality is not natural?  I mean, if there is something that makes some men experience pleasure and others not experience it, that would clearly indicate to me that homosexuality in men is not a choice but rather a biological occurrence that makes homosexuality perfectly natural.  It's like left-handedness: most people are right-handed but left handed people are not unnatural or freaks, just different.  

Wait, you mean that no doctor or scientist has found this gay anal pleasure DNA sequence that allows ONLY homosexual men to experience pleasure when anally stimulated?  Are you serious?  Oh, okay, let's rethink this.  There isn't anything that makes ONLY gay men experience pleasure anally so . . . what if . . . OK, stay with me . . . ALL men experience pleasure when they are stimulated anally and that has nothing whatsoever to do with their sexual orientation?  That couldn't be possible, could it?  Either there something that makes ONLY gay men experience pleasure when stimulated anally and that makes homosexuality as natural as say, red hair or blue eyes.  If there ISN'T something specific that makes only gay men experience pleasure when stimulated anally, that means that all men have the potential and ability to experience pleasure when stimulated anally and receiving pleasure anally has nothing whatsoever to do with sexual orientation.  So which one is it? 

Wednesday, November 05, 2014

AfroerotiK Guide: How to fuck an Asshole

Anal sex is considered taboo in many social circles.  It’s also a sexual practice that can provide tremendous sexual pleasure for the participants.  The following information is a guide to anal sex for both men and women that should facilitate pleasure and intimacy between partners in a safe way.

To set the stage, I recommend starting with a healthy bowel movement at least two hours prior to trying anal sex.  The rectum should actually be devoid of any poo poo.  If that is done, you shouldn’t have to worry about things getting too terribly messy.  I suggest the use of an enema and you can get a premixed formula at the drug store for less than $2.00 or use the good old fashioned kind your grandmother used to give you from the red bag.  After that, a shower to clean any trace poo poo away should set the stage.  If you have any cuts, hemorrhoids, or anal tears, DO NOT, I repeat DO NOT attempt anal sex, not even with a condom.

The key to anal sex is start small and go slow.  While I like small butt plugs and vibrators as an introduction, my preference is tongue.  It's much softer and pliable and gives a lot more pleasure.  It's also more intimate.  Depending on the experience of the giving party, they may or may not be comfortable with “tossing the salad” or licking someone's ass so again it's a personal call.  It’s imperative to constantly ask for feedback and give encouragement for both parties.  Sex is mostly mental so it's about getting the person relaxed and aroused.  Tell him or her how sexy their asshole is, how much it turns you on to know that they are giving it to you, sharing it with you, how much pleasure you want to give them, , etc.  If it's a guy, jerking him off is essential while licking him, if it's a woman, have her use a vibrator on her clit because she'll know her body better than anyone and can create more arousal.  Extreme sexual arousal is the key to great anal sex.

After sufficient licking, about 15 minutes or so, start with a finger.  There are actually two actions that will help relax the muscles around the anus that will make anal sex less painful.  "Squeezing" and "Pushing" should be used in tandem to help relax the muscles.  Use a lot of lubricant.  There's no such thing as too much.  The recipient should push out, like they are trying to have a bowel movement.  That allows for easier penetration.  With the tip of your finger in, then tell them to squeeze, squeeze, squeeze, like they are trying to hold in an urgent movement, which causes the sphincter to get exhausted.  After they've done that, go back to stimulating the pussy or dick and just leave the tip of your finger as still as possible.  Once they have done that for a few while, tell them to push out again, which should allow your finger to go in without any real effort on your part.  Once you are in a little deeper, let them get used to the feeling of your finger in there and then tell them to squeeze for dear life.  Each time they squeeze, the anal ring will get weaker and weaker, making it looser.  By this time, they should be loving every second of it so you should just keep on with the verbal encouragement.  I find dirty talk increases stimulation so try your hand at some explicit language to heat things up.

A couple more rounds of squeezing and pushing and you should have one finger all the way in.  Always follow each round of pushing and squeezing with being completely still.  The receiver usually has no idea how much finger they have taken so once you are all the way in; just feel around and get comfortable with the way their ass feels.  That's excellent to do so you can get an idea of the angle of their ass.  Nothing's worse than someone trying to fuck someone in the ass and going in at the wrong angle.  Men usually jump out of their skin when your rub their prostate, a little marble sized gland located at the base of the penis inside the anus.  At that point, if you've done everything right, they should be begging you to finger fuck them harder.  Again, don't be afraid of water-based lubricant, more is better.  Silicone-based lubricant is also very good but I have concerns about what elements are introduced into the body. 

Whatever lubricant you use, be sure to use it liberally.

After you've gotten up some serious finger fucking, inserting another finger should be a piece of cake.  You might have to go a couple more rounds of squeezing and pushing but I'd let the recipient control it at that point so they can drive the ship for a while.  It's been my experience that you can get a third finger in and the receiver has no clue how many fingers are in them.  I would like to caution you to NOT engage in fisting activities, or insertion of the entire hand into the rectum, because I’m not comfortable with that sort of hazardous practice that could cause serious injury.  There are many people that engage in the practice but it seems awfully extreme when there are so many other anal options.

Because I personally don't have a real dick, I have to use toys, so for me, I usually start with a battery operated vibrator first and move on to the dildo.  Use the same techniques for the small vibrators.  More lube, more pushing, more squeezing.  It should go in very easily so the trick is to start out slow with the vibrations and increase the intensity.  Position the recipient on their knees with their face down in order to facilitate the best penetration.  The dildo/dick comes next and you should basically let the recipient control the pace.  Do a lot of touching and stroking and caressing all over their body when you put the head to the asshole and continue to use your pushing and squeezing techniques until the head is in.  Once the head is in, DON'T DO A THING until the recipient tells you it's okay to proceed.  Here is where the pushing out really comes in handy because with the tiniest bit of pressure they can accommodate the entire thing.

After about four inches of the dick/dildo is in, you are going to hit a little kink in the colon that is like a little bend.  For many, that is the spot where they experience the most pleasure.  Once the head is past that point, you are on your way to becoming an anal expert.  If you've done all that and continued to talk to the person the entire time, you should be ass fucking like a pro.  Go slow, get lots of feedback, and enjoy.  It's incredible pleasure for both the giver and the receiver.


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