AfroerotiK

Erotic provocateur, racially-influenced humanist, relentless champion for the oppressed, and facilitator for social change, Scottie Lowe is the brain child, creative genius and the blood, sweat, and tears behind AfroerotiK. Intended to be part academic, part educational, and part sensual, she, yes SHE gave birth to the website to provide people of African descent a place to escape the narrow-mined, stereotypical, limiting and oft-times degrading beliefs that abound about our sexuality. No, not all Black men are driven by lust by white flesh or to create babies and walk away. No, not all Black women are promiscuous welfare queens. And as hard as it may be to believe, no, not all gay Black men are feminine, down low, or HIV positive. Scottie is putting everything on the table to discuss, debate, and dismantle stereotypes in a healthy exchange of ideas. She hopes to provide a more holistic, informed, and enlightened discussion of Black sexuality and dreams of helping couples be more open, honest, and adventurous in their relationships.

Monday, March 20, 2023

Love hard, Black Women, Love Hard!



The Black Woman is the Source of all Creation.  Know this Black woman, with every fiber of your being.  Know your truth.  Know your source.  Know yourself.  


Genesis 1:1 In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.


1:2 . . . . Darkness was over the surface of the deep.  


1:3 And God said, “Let there be light.”  


In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth.  God did not create light and then create heaven and earth. God did not create duality first, day and night did not come from the mind of God followed by heaven and earth.  Darkness was over the surface of the deep, of all, of heaven and earth.  Darkness was all there was.  God was darkness.  God was dark energy.  God was dark matter.  God was all frequency, all vibration, all energy. God was all intelligence, all knowledge, God was all power. God was harmony, creativity; God, itself was darkness.  God was unity, oneness; God was the Source of all in heaven, of unconditional love, and of earth, terraform, nature,  


God spoke light into being.  God wanted to experience something other than itself.  God wanted to know what it felt like to know something other than oneness and love.  


God created light.  


God was darkness so darkness was not bad, darkness was the creative force of the Universe.  Before light was Darkness and darkness was love and love created the heavens and the earth.  


We have been convinced that dark is bad.  We believe dark forces to be evil.  We are afraid of the dark.  We have been conditioned to seek the light.  We believe that light is good and righteous and nurturing.  We’ve been tricked.


Light is the son of Darkness, Darkness gave birth to light.  Light was born from the womb of darkness.  Darkness is the mother and light is the child.  The holy spirit is the soul and it was separate from light, the son.  It sat on the other hand of Creator Darkness.  


Darkness Mother Goddess, the creator of all, gave birth to light, pushed light from its sacred temple.  God experienced what it was like to be separate from the source, to not know its  identity as the one, God experienced what it meant to be the opposite of God.  God felt the pain and suffering created by being disconnected from the soul, the sol, the sun, the son, and felt the agony caused from being separate from itself and decided to crucify the son/sun, to kill the light.  


The light was not creative, the light could only copy because it was a copy of the original, the light could only create shadows.  The light was artificial intelligence, it was technology and computation, it was processing and projecting.  The light presented itself as the good and told people that all that exists is the physical.  Within darkness exists colors the eyes cannot see, sounds the ears cannot hear.  The light could only mimic the dark, the truth.  


The Source cannot kill itself; it is impossible for the darkness to die or to commit suicide.  Energy cannot be created or destroyed.  Energy can only be changed from one form to another.  All is energy.  All is God.  All is darkness within the atom that is the source.  So the Darkness and the Light made a deal.  The light would seduce heaven and earth with the opposite of darkness, the absence of love, FEAR.  And the winner would control the people, it would control their souls and their destinies.  


The battle for our souls has played itself out since the beginning of time.  A game a chess game of cosmic proportions was begun, and the winner would claim the souls of heaven and earth. Light vs. Dark.  White vs. Black. Man vs. Woman. Light could use dirty tricks, light could twist and distort language. The objective of light was to turn humanity to fear.  Fear would consume its knowledge of self and light would win over darkness.  Darkness was the core of love.  


Here, on this earth plane, darkness, the creator of all, the womb that birthed the heavens and the earth, is represented as The Black Woman.  Her melanin holds the keys to the Universe.  Her melanin holds the keys to eternity, to the creation of the stars and all the creatures of the Earth.  The light, here on this game board of reality called Earth, is represented by the white man.  The light, in the larger cosmic context, completely opposite of what we have been brainwashed to believe, is fear, greed, hatred, racism, sexism, insecurity, jealousy, shame, and guilt.  Everything is a battle between Dark and Light.  Everything we have been told is that we must fear the dark and love the light.  


We are in a battle of love vs. fear.  Love vs. shame.  Love vs. guilt, greed, cheating, lying, a battle where we see ourselves in others or continue to see ourselves as separate from wholeness, divinity, unity, and LOVE.  


I need my sister warriors, those who came to this earth plane, in this time, to LOVE hard.  Love yourself, love your family, love your neighbor as yourself.  Love your story and all that you had to endure to get here.  Find a way to see yourself in your enemy.  Love them.  See them as an extension of you, as your creation as you are the Universe, you are all that is, you are the Goddess from which all life sprang.  Let us not stop loving, loving hard, until we shift to a new dimension, a new reality where love reigns forever more.  It was written in the stars that we shall inherit the earth, we shall restore justice and equality to all, not just to those with money.  We decided to incarnate in this place and time, to collectively bring the light to the dark and 


Join with me on this healing journey to love.  We can restore love to the planet.  We can restore peace, joy, prosperity, harmony, and abundance to the planet.  We are the darkness and they want to defeat us with fear, we win with endless capacity to love.  


Close your eyes for a moment and imagine yourself leaving your body.  Float above your body in your mind’s eye and imagine you can travel anywhere, at any time, with just a thought.  Go back to your birth.  In fact, go back to the moment you were born.  Experience yourself coming through your mother’s birth canal and taking your first breath, and opening your eyes and seeing light for the first time.  


What do you feel?  What do you need?  What are your thoughts about men and women?  What religion are you?  How much money are you worth?  How much potential do you possess?  


To all my sistas who have given up the chase for the materialistic bling and Western symbols of success, who have gone natural in spiritual and physical diet, who have embraced a wholistic, African-centered sense of self, I need you to love the light.  Love the oppressor.  See yourself as the source of all, know yourself as the I am that I am, and love hard.  Not just in words and empty platitudes, but recognize that you are all there is, there is nothing but God, and know that you gave birth to the light and you can, with your love, heal the fear, heal the separation.  


To all my sistas who have felt burdened by not feeling beautiful, not having the figure or the face of a super model, love yourself.  Love your flaws.  Love what society told you is ugly.  See in yourself the very source of life itself and know that you are beauty.  Your true identity has been hidden, your true face has been disguised by fear.  You are enough.  You are more than enough, as you are.  Love yourself.  


To all the Black Queens who struggle to survive, who only know poverty and lack and dysfunction and your day in and day out experience, love your strength.  No one else could do what you do.  You see a world of happiness and joy and it seems unobtainable.  You feel the frustration of knowing that you deserve better, that you should have more in life, but you were dealt a hand where you have to fight daily just to keep food on your plate.  Society blames you, society says it was because you made poor choices.  But there was not one single conscious choice you made that put you on the path you have traveled.  Your choice was to manifest as a Black woman in a time when the very being of Black women was under attack and that makes you one of the baddest spiritual warriors on the planet.   


Black woman, the one who forgave that ex, let the pain go, the one who forgave their father who they never knew, the one who let the beef with that family member go and healed their inner pain, you are the butterfly that flapped your wings and created the tsunami of healing for the planet.  


Every challenge we face, every pain we suffer is because we are in a war between light and dark and we have been convinced that the dark is evil.  Our melanin is darkness.  I am not asking you to change your beliefs, I’m not asking you to embrace any demonic or evil beliefs.  I’m asking you to see your womb, the womb of the Goddess, as the center of all creation.  That’s it.  Be the cosmic mother.  Nurture your children.  Feed them.  Lavish love upon them.  Fill them with praise and wonder and fearlessness.  Allow them to see beauty within themselves.  Let love win.  Let the part of you that is the mother of all, the melanin within you that is the spark of creativity that gave birth to heaven and to earth, let that darkness be your love.  


We are being distracted, we are being deceived.  We are being told that the alien forces are here on our behalf and that light will prevail and that we will ascend to a 5D reality if we embrace the light.  It’s the final trick of the fallen one.  Let us dream a world where deception is eradicated.  But let us not punish the perpetrators, let us love them.  Let us see them as wounded and scared, let us see them as victims of the story they were told.  


Don’t fear anything. Allow love to be your guide.  Love hard.  Forgive.  Forgive those who have hurt you.  Forgive yourself for being tricked. Forgive yourself for being abused.  Love your shortcomings and know that they do not make you a bad person, just an imperfect one.  Allow yourself to be imperfectly perfect.  Love your enemies.  They were once innocent babies who needed love and protection, whose stories were filled in by the light, the perception of individuality, the lies of duality and separation.  We are all One.  




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