Monday, July 11, 2011
A Question for Black Women about Submissive White Men
I have been writing erotica for almost 10 years now. What started out as outlet for my sexuality that I couldn’t find represented in the then current offerings of porn/erotica quickly developed into a study of human sexuality and an opportunity for me to share the gospel of truth as I see it with my written word. The more I wrote, the more I shared my writing, the more people would open up to me about their fantasies. The more they opened up, the more I saw common themes and desires in certain groups of people. It didn’t take very long in fact for me to figure out that white men were CRAVING domination from Black men and women alike in outrageous numbers. In fact, the most searched, read, and sought out essay I’ve ever written is the one I wrote years ago about White Male Submission. In the years since that piece was written, white male submission has become more widespread in fantasy, but the outlets for it are still very limited. Most porn sites dedicated to Black Female Domination are owned and operated by individual Black females themselves, not big corporate conglomerates understanding the niche and trying to capitalize off it. Conversely, if you did an internet search for sites dedicated to white women submitting (whether overtly or subtly) to Black men, you could spend the rest of your natural born life clicking on websites and never see them all.
White men, still by and large, often individually feel like they are the only white man in the world with desires to submit to Black sexuality. The media covers their obsessive need to molest children and even made a weekly television program showing how pervasive the trend is but I’ve yet to see any mainstream media coverage of the scores, the hoards, the multitudes of white men who are sucking black dick, who are longing to be spanked, beaten, pissed on, and used by Dominant Black women. I recently did a search for images of Black couples dominating a white male and I couldn’t find any. Not any. In the year 2011, when you can readily find pictures of anime midgets engaged in underwater bestiality or anything that one’s perverted mind can imagine, it was virtually impossible to find an image of a white male being dominated by a black couple.
My question is this. I’ve seen the number or submissive white men over the years multiply exponentially. What I’d like to know is, are the numbers of Black women who find the idea of dominating a white male increasing as well? I know there are a number of Black women who have dabbled and experimented in financial domination but I suspect they have tired of that very quickly because white men are masterful at stringing women along, using money as a tool to control and dictate their whims, never really following through on their promises of giving money but using it as the proverbial carrot to manipulate Black women into fulfilling their fantasies as they see fit. Are there more and more Black women who are truly recognizing their power, are they exploring their sexual selves and finding that it can in fact be pleasurable to dominate and control someone, especially a white male? Are Black women feeling a need to dominate on par with the white male’s need to submit?
I’d love for some honest feedback. Are the numbers of Black women in kink, in the D/s world staying pretty stagnant for the most part or is there an emergence of dominant Black women that has gone under the radar because no one wants to discuss, explore, or acknowledge that white men desire to be dominated by Black men/women? Ladies, share your experiences and your fantasies. If you find the concept arousing, speak up, don’t remain silent. Share. If you’ve tried it and you didn’t like it, can’t be bothered anymore, I’d love to know that as well.