The Secret. The Law of Attraction. Manifesting your Desires. It’s called different things but it’s all
based on the same principle that has been touted in every religion in the
world. “As a man thinketh, so is he.”
Proverbs 23:7. “What you think, you
become.” Buddha. Secrets texts have been telling us for millennia
that we create our reality with our beliefs.
But for lots of African Americans, the Law of Attraction seems to be
more difficult to master than for other races.
The Law of Attraction is based on
the laws of physics. Everything in the Universe
is made up of atoms. Look at your hand,
it’s not really solid, it’s made up of billions of cells and each human cell is
made up of 100s of trillions of atoms. Atoms
are energy vibrating at different rates that make things appear solid. There is nothing solid, there is nothing “real”. The building block for every single thing in
the universe, tangible and intangible, is the atom, is energy. The Universe is one big field of vibrating,
pulsating energy. We are that energy. Our thoughts are that energy. There is nothing that exists other than the
cosmic soup of vibration. God is not some
Big White Sky Daddy who sees everything and punishes you if you sin but God is
the consciousness that exquisitely orchestrates the blooming of the flowers in
Spring and the birth of perfect little babies and all the vibrating atoms in
the Universe that make our “perfect” reality, all the energy that is ALL THERE
IS that creates our world.
Our thoughts are vibrational. Our BELIEFS about life, about how the Universe
works, the things we know to be true shape our personal reality are just the
energy we put out into the Universe.
All people of color on earth are
victims of a fallacious belief that Caucasians are inherently superior. Because white people have convinced the overall
collective consciousness that being a victim means being weak, being flawed, that
being a victim means voluntarily choosing to be treated unfairly, there are
some people reading who will automatically reject anything I say from here on out,
they will vehemently deny that they are a victim of anything. Being a victim means that someone has wronged
you, there should be no shame in being a victim. The only people who benefit from the concept
of a victim meaning someone who is weak are people who seek to take advantage,
use, and oppress other people. I have no
clue how or why the belief that white people are better has been perpetuated
but it has been. Some individuals have
been affected by it more than others, some races have been more affected by its
legacy than others. So, when it comes to
manifesting your desires, when it comes to your beliefs about the Universe, there
has been no other race of people who feel more entitled to wealth, more
entitled to stuff than white people.
From the minute they are born, everything in society, everything they
are taught, exposed to, and learn is that their skin color makes them better
than people of color. Beauty standards say
blond hair and blue eyes the most attractive.
Jesus is depicted as a white man.
God is depicted as a white man.
We’ve been falsely told that white men invented, created, and discovered
every great thing on the planet. Not
only did they STEAL everything they claim to have invented, they have committed
the greatest crimes against humanity in history to achieve their wealth,
status, and achievements.
It stands to reason that one
manifests what they BELIEVE, if on attracts the things they think about, if
follows that white people (and specifically white men) would feel that they are
more deserving, more entitled to the things they want. The law of attraction doesn’t respond to what
we have earned, it doesn’t respond to how honest we are, it doesn’t respond to
how much we have suffered or worked or sacrificed. The Law of Attraction doesn’t even respond to
your intellect or talent. It responds to
what we BELIEVE we deserve.
African Americans have a unique
history. We were stolen from our homeland and our
ENTIRE identities were decimated, our history was wiped out, our traditions,
culture, our sense of personhood was replaced with the belief that we were nothing
more than things to be bought and sold, subhuman. We were convinced that our natural traits,
like our hair, our skin color, our features, our religion, our bodies, even our
names were repulsive and wrong. No other
race of people have had that sort of decimation to their identities. I don’t say that as some sort of challenge to
racists who want to assert that what that happened to Blacks wasn’t bad, nor is
my objective to play Oppression Olympics with individuals who want to assert
that what happened to other races was equally as detrimental. NO OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE WERE TAKEN FROM THEIR
HOMELAND, TRANSPORTED THOUSANDS OF MILES AWAY, ENSLAVED FOR THEIR PHYSICAL
CHARACTERISTICS, AND STRIPPED OF ANY AND EVERY CONNECTION TO THEIR IDENTITY,
PAST, HISTORY, CULTURE, TRADITIONS, AND RELIGION. NO OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE WERE GENERATIONALLY
SUBJECTED TO ABUSE BASED ON THEIR PHYSICAL CHARACTERISTICS BEING DIFFERENT FROM
THEIR CAPTORS. NO OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE
OTHER THAN AFRICANS WHO WERE ENSLAVED AND THEIR DESCENDENTS ENDURED THEIR SENSE
OF SELF BEING COMPLETELY ERASED, DENIED RIGHTS AS HUMANS, FORCED TO LABOR UNDER
INHUMANE CONDITIONS, SUBJECTED TO HEINOUS PRACTICES LIKE RAPE AND SADISTIC
TORTURE ROUTINELY, BOUGHT AND SOLD LIKE ANIMALS, AND TOLD THAT EVERYTHING ABOUT
THEM WAS SICKENING. The Holocaust was 7 years. Jews did not have their history, identity,
culture, or traditions ripped from them.
Their religion has remained the same for thousands of years. Africans who were enslaved by other Africans
were not enslaved for their physical characteristics. You cannot degrade and shame a slave who has
the same facial and physical features, if their appearance is the same. Native Americans who were genocided in
numbers that are sickening and horrific, were not transported from their
homeland, their identities were not stripped from them. So while their populations were destroyed,
they have a history that is unique and original to them. African Americans can make no such
claims.
African Americans, descendants of
slaves, both individually and collectively have NO concept of where their home
is. They know the continent but not the
place, not the region, not the country.
We do not know the traditions our ancestors practiced, the rites of
passage or religious ceremonies our ancestors performed, we do not know what
tribe we come from or what language they spoke.
NO OTHER RACE OF ENSLAVED PEOPLE CAN SAY THAT. Why
is that significant? Because the African
American identity is the youngest in the world.
It was created in slavery. Every
other race of people can trace their lineage back to some sort of creation
story. Our identity is the result of
white people, again who feel superior and entitled in astronomically unbelievable
ways, telling us that we were ugly, stupid, and inherently inferior. We don’t
have one single thing we can point to that allows us to have any connection to
who and what we were before our ancestors were kidnapped and enslaved. Again, why is that important? Because our entire identities as a race of
people is dependent upon the belief that was beaten into our ancestors that our
blackness makes us inferior. And as much
as it pains some Black folk to acknowledge, every single solitary one of us is
victim to a racist, oppressive, system that has deemed we are inferior.
Slave mentality, as I define it,
is the perpetuation of practices, beliefs, and ideologies that slaves learned
at the end of a whip. Slaves were told
that light skinned women were prettier, had more value. If a Black person today BELIEVES that light
skinned women are prettier, if they BELIEVE that blond hair and blue eyes are
prettier, they are slaves to a belief system that tells them that African hair
and skin and features are ugly. Changing
and altering our NATURAL hair texture to be like that of our oppressor is slave
mentality. It is saying that our
God-given hair is wrong and ugly. That’s
what slaves were told. So when Beyonce
sits in a hairdresser’s chair and has another person’s hair sewn in her head,
she is reflecting the slave mentality that tells her that she has to be blond
with long, flowing, straight hair in order to be beautiful just like slaves on
the plantation heard over and over again, just like that was beaten into
them. When Black women get relaxers,
when they change their natural hair texture to “be more manageable” what they
are saying is, “My own natural hair is a bad texture and it needs to be
straighter to be effectively controlled.”
That is slave mentality.
Being Christian is slave
mentality. Africans who were enslaved,
those who were kidnapped, transported, and survived the middle passage were not
Christian. They had religions that were
vastly different than those of their white captors. Slaves were beaten and killed for practicing
their own religion. They were beaten and tortured until they relinquished
their God(s) and accepted Jesus as their lord and savior. So when African Americans today say that they
only BELIEVE in Christianity, that they are Christian because their
grandparents were, they are slaves on the plantation. Slaves, those born here, had no choice but to
BELIEVE in the slave master’s religion.
They didn’t think to question Christianity’s validity because they were
born into a system that told them that everything the white man said was right
and that anything African was heathen, wrong, and bad. Our ancestors who were transported here in
slave ships, chained to the diseased, dead, and dying, didn’t think it was a
blessing to worship this white God. They
fought to keep their traditions, practices, and cultures alive in secret. Their children, born into the hell of slavery,
beaten into believing that Christianity was the only right religion accepted
Jesus because that’s what they white man told them they had to do, they
believed that the white man’s word, his religion, his doctrine was all there
was.
Rape, abuse, violence, and
torture were all tools white people regularly used to control slaves so mental
slaves today BELIEVE that beating a child controls them, that power and control
comes from violence. Black parents beat
their children, abuse them, and claim it’s for their own good exactly the way
slave masters did. Their need to
overpower, subjugate, control, and manipulate their children is a manifestation
of slave mentality. Black men want to
control something, anything, so they rape, molest, and abuse females in an
effort to feel more powerful, to feel more like the white man, to control some
aspect of their worlds where they can feel like they are the masters. That is slave mentality.
Everything that African Americans
BELIEVE was born in slavery and is the by-product of slave mentality. We BELIEVE that having more money makes us
better people. We BELIEVE that if our
clothes have designer labels that we are somehow more valuable. Black men BELIEVE that if their penis is
larger, their skin is darker, they have more value because the Buck with the
biggest dick, with the darkest skin sold for the most on the auction
block.
We are still slaves on the
plantation.
White people take their first
breath in a world where they are told in every way that they are superior, that
they are deserving and worthy of all that life has to offer. Some, especially those with money, even if
that money was gotten from stealing, embezzling, or cheating other people, believe
that their life has more value, their the air they breathe is more sacred, that
their very identity as white is as close to God as a person can get. Poor white people are told the same messages
but they don’t have the benefit of money so they TEND TO struggle with feeling
worthy, deserving and entitled to things in the same way as middle and upper
class whites do. They are told that Black
people, Mexicans, that every person of color is inferior to them.
Let’s just pretend for a moment
that no one said those things specifically to a white child. Let’s just suspend reality for a little while
and assume that in some little tiny corner of America, there is a white child
that has grown up in a household where the parents have only said, “Color doesn’t
matter, can’t we call get along, and Martin Luther King had a dream.” That child is still the beneficiary of every
single, solitary book they read depicts the hero who looks like them. They turn on the TV and go to the movies
where the good guy always looks like them.
They go to church and look up at a stained glass depiction of God that
looks like them. They turn on the news
and the only faces they see represented as evil are brown and look nothing like
them. It doesn’t take parents burning a
cross and saying, “I hate niggers,” for a white child to grow up with a
fallacious sense of superiority. All it
takes is them going to school and the teacher teaching them that Columbus
discovered America, that George Washington was the most honest President, that
the first man on the moon was Neil Armstrong.
If you are a white male, you are told that every great invention in the
last 2000 years comes from someone that looks exactly like you. So can there be any question that white
people, specifically white men feel more entitled to wealth, health, happiness,
and anything their heart desires?
Now, back to The Law of
Attraction. The LOA responds to your
vibration, what you send out into the Universe.
Your thoughts become your reality, right? So, African Americans have been born into a
system, a culture where they BELIEVE that they are inherently inferior what is
reflected back to them is what they BELIEVE.
Not everyone has the same degree of slave mentality and some, on an
individual basis are even able to transcend the messages they are given, but
the system of racism in America reinforces that Blacks are inherently criminal,
inherently lazy, inherently stupid, and that we have to work twice as hard to
get half as much. Our beloved and
well-intentioned foremothers and forefathers told us that we have to be perfect
in order to get God’s favor, that we can’t have any sin. We are told as a people that we can’t expect
rewards on earth, that we have to wait for heaven to find freedom from pain and
suffering. We are taught to BELIEVE that everything white
is right and that the closer we are to whiteness in our dress, our language,
our carriage is better.
The Law of Attraction is
immutable, meaning it can’t be changed.
The Universe ABSOLUTELY gives you what you BELIEVE you deserve. So, if you look around you and you are in a
job you hate, you are in a an abusive relationship, if you are in debt with no
way out, if your health is failing and you are miserable it’s because that’s
what you BELIEVE you deserve. The Law of
Attraction does not respond to your karma, if you do bad things, if you are a
criminal, the Law of Attraction doesn’t say, “No, no, no, you can’t have wealth
and success and prosperity, you are being punished.” The Law of Attraction doesn’t say, “You have
to be super talented and a genius in order to acquire wealth and riches.” Nope.
The Law of Attraction says, “Abracadabra! If you BELIEVE you are deserving, worthy and
entitled to whatever it is your little heart desires, you get it.”
You have the same body
temperature of David and Charles Koch.
Your lungs process the exact same air as Bill Gates. With very few exceptions, everyone has the
same respiratory, muscular, nervous, cardiovascular, skeletal, and neurological
systems as every other human being and they operate in exactly the same
way. Every billionaire on the planet has
cell’s that are comprised of the exact same genetic materials as you have
operating in you right now. There is
nothing that makes rich people more deserving of wealth than their belief that
they do. There is nothing keep you from
wealth other than your belief that you are undeserving. There are dumb people who are filthy
rich. There are untalented people whose
wealth is measured in millions. There
are criminals who have raped, murdered, stolen, cheated, manipulated, lied,
coerced and deceived their entire lives and they are living in the lap of
luxury. Greedy people, selfish people,
unenlightened people, a person’s character doesn’t determine their wealth. The only thing that determines a person’s
reality is their belief about their what they deserve.
“That’s not true,” you say! “What about
people who are born into wealth, whose parents are rich before they are even
conceived?” The Law of Attraction says
that if a person doesn’t BELIEVE that they are deserving of wealth, they will
lose that wealth. Children born into
rich families are told that they are deserving for no other reason than just
having breath in their lungs so that’s the reality they manifest as they get
older. They expect cars and drugs and whatever
it is rich people think makes them better than everyone else and the Universe
says, “Ask, and it is given.” Really,
the Universe says, “Believe and you shall receive.” Whatever it is you BELIEVE you deserve is
around you right now. When you change
your mind about what you believe you are deserving of, you change your
reality.
It’s not so easy for African
Americans to change their belief systems.
It’s not impossible, it’s just not as easy as it is for white people to
manifest a shift in consciousness where they get all their heart’s desires just
from changing their vibration (Remember, the entire Universe if vibration, nothing
more than atoms colliding around in space and nothingness). Sure, you have Oprah and Michael Jordan and a
ton of rappers and basketball players and entertainers and even some CEO’s and
doctors and lawyers who are filthy rich.
But, for the vast majority of Black people we are trapped in a belief
that we are undeserving of wealth, that the best we can hope for is to work a
9-5 and get a measly pension. The most
SOME Black people think that they best they deserve is doing something illegal
to get a cash flow to pay the bills or buy whatever materialistic item they
think gives them value. Whatever you BELIEVE
about your reality is the life you are living.
Any people who are descended from
slavery are going to have a more difficult time manifesting a loving
relationship because our relationships were controlled by the slave
master. We can’t pass down healthy
patterns to our children because the days of healthy patterns in our
relationships were left on the shores of West Africa when our ancestors boarded
slave ships. We accept cheating and
infidelity as the norm, we expect lying in relationships. We don’t even have a concept of what a
healthy relationship looks like so we continue to manifest all we know,
relationships based on financial transactions and appearances. If Black women BELIEVE that all men are good
for is paying the electric bill in exchange for sex, guess what, all the men in
our lives will use us for sex and give a few bucks for the gas and
electric.
What’s that you say? “That’s not true, I want to be rich and I
want a loving relationship.” Unfortunately,
the Universe doesn’t respond to what you want.
What do you BELIEVE you deserve?
Whatever is in your life right now is what you BELIEVE you deserve. You might want to drive a Bentley and live in
a 20-bedroom mansion but you BELIEVE you deserve to live in Section 8 housing
and get food stamps. You think that’s
all you are worth in life, your core beliefs tell you that you are no better
than that, that you can’t expect any more than that. You can wish, hope, and dream, you can
visualize and pray until your knees are ashy and crusty but until you BELIEVE
that you are worthy of all that life has to offer, all the wealth and riches
you want, until you know deep down in your heart that you can have anything and
everything you desire just because you are a manifestation of the universal
collective consciousness, you are going to get only what you BELIEVE you
deserve.
For some African Americans, like
myself, we were the victims of physical, emotional, and mental abuse from our
parents who literally beat into us that we were unworthy and undeserving just
because we were born. The relationship
that was supposed to be the most nurturing, most loving, most supportive
relationship we’ve ever had was . . . not.
For some Black people, like myself, our parents tried to beat our dreams
out of us. They wanted us to suffer as
much as they were suffering inside. They
wanted us to pay for their pain. They
wanted us to conform and BELIEVE that we were unworthy. So they imprinted on our subconscious minds
with their beatings that we were wretched, unworthy, undeserving, and
inherently bad. The pain, frustration,
rage, and anger of being Black all too often comes out in our parenting. How many times have you heard a Black mother
tell her son that he’s a dumb nigger just like his daddy? She’s holding in the pain of her experience
and inflicting in on her son. Black
mother’s do the same to their daughters if their daughters show signs of
independence, that they aren’t going to be miniature versions of
themselves. In an effort to validate
their pain, Black parents will beat their children and say, “I got worse
beatings as a child and I turned out fine.”
No, you didn’t. You are hurt and
angry, and you haven’t manifested your dreams or desires.
For some Black people, if our
mother’s had particularly painful, difficult, and unwanted pregnancies, they
started sending out the energy that we were unworthy and undeserving before we
were even born, they imprinted into our DNA that we were inherently unworthy
just for being born. Thoughts are energy
and the energy that some of our mothers sent to us as fetuses was that we were
inherently bad. I’ve worked for twenty
years at the Law of Attraction. I’ve
written more journals, recited more affirmations, I’ve visualized, acted “as if”,
I’ve done everything every Law of Attraction book, workshop, retreat, and
conference has ever advised. I STILL
struggle with manifesting my desires. I
have to admit and acknowledge that I still hear my mother’s voice telling me
that I’m nothing, that I will never be anything, that I’m destined to be a
nobody my entire life. I hear her
telling me that she hated my father and that I’m just like him, meaning to my
small child mind, that she hated me. (And she does hate me, she just didn’t
come out and say it) I’ve meditated, I’ve
listened to recordings, I’ve done sweat lodges.
I’ve tried to be perfect, I’ve tried to release my desires, I’ve tried
everything that I know how to do in order to manifest my desires. I don’t have a clue what it’s going to take
for me to BELIEVE that I’m deserving of all my dreams coming true, of having
the relationship I want, of having my career finally take off, but one thing I
know for sure is the Universe is vibrational and when I BELIEVE that I’m
worthy, it will show up in my life.
I’ve manifested my desires
before. I’ve done it several times. There are books that will tell you that you
have to be happy in order to manifest your desires, that you have to be
appreciative of what you have before you can manifest wealth in your life. I’ve been in an abusive relationship and
depressed and trying to keep my head above water and manifested a way out
before. I wasn’t happy. I wasn’t appreciative of the hell that I was
going through at the time. What I did
have was a BELIEF that I deserved a decent apartment that I could afford to pay
rent for myself without help from anyone.
I always got the job, I always got the perfect apartment, I always got
exactly what it was I BELIEVED I deserved.
My slave mentality always limited what I got. It wasn’t the best. I never got the job paying $100,000 because I
BELIEVEd that you had to have special talents, you had to work your way up; my
reality always reflected my beliefs and that was that I was only deserving of
slightly more than the bare minimum. I
deserved more than a ghetto reality but I certainly never BELIEVED that I was
deserving of wealth. Wealth is something
my mother told me was only for people who were perfect. That was her message to me, that formed my
belief system. She would beat me if I
wasn’t perfect. She would fly off into a
rage if I wasn’t perfect. She would
withhold her love and tell me it was because I wasn’t perfect. I’ve associated wealthy, prosperity,
abundance, love, and success with perfection since before I even understood
what any of those words meant.
Let’s look at George W. Bush for
a moment as it relates to the Law of Attraction. He’s far from perfect. He’s not at all intelligent, in fact, he’s
the opposite of intelligent. He doesn’t
have any particular talent, he’s ruined every company he’s run. He’s pretty much a complete and total screw
up in the scheme of life. But, he BELIEVED
he was deserving of running the wealthiest country in the nation. He BELIEVED he could manipulate the country
into wars that made profits for he and his friends to become even more filthy
rich. It wasn’t an accident that he
became the president, ballots in Florida notwithstanding, but it was his BELIEF
that he was deserving of being president that made the Universe/God move heaven
and earth, to do whatever had to be done, in order for him to be able to
manifest his desires.
If your football team doesn’t
win, it’s because more players on the winning team felt deserving to win. You play the lottery every week, hoping and
praying that one day you will be one of the lucky ones. Until you BELIEVE that you are deserving of
winning, until you know in your gut that you deserve that kind of wealth, you
won’t manifest a dag gone things. The
Universe gives you exactly what you BELIEVE you deserve.
Most times, Black people don’t
even know what our core beliefs are. We
have never thought about or questioned what we BELIEVE. We certainly have never thought about the
impact of slavery on our belief systems because we are ashamed of our slave
past. We BELIEVE that we truly were
inferior and that white people were superior and if we even think about slavery
it’s like admitting that we are second rate.
Never does it occur to Black people that it was actually white people
who were inferior for kidnapping, enslaving, buying, selling, beating, raping,
torturing, and murdering human beings simply because of the color of their
skin. Nope. We get up day after day
after day, never thinking one time about what we BELIEVE we are deserving
of. We have a pattern we function off
of. We are deserving of the job we have,
the income we get, we are only good enough to get the sort of housing we have.
So how do some Black people
become successful when most Blacks don’t?
They BELIEVE they are deserving.
They BELIEVE that their rapping skills are world class and worthy of a
recording contract. They BELIEVE that
they are deserving of starring in a reality show. The Universe always gives you what you BELIEVE. I know some of you are screaming, “That’s not
true! I BELIEVED with all my heart and soul that I deserved to be drafted in
the first round of the NBA draft (or whatever your dream was) and I didn’t get
it.” Well, that’s because on some level,
you didn’t BELIEVE you were worthy of it.
The people who acquire wealth and lose it don’t BELIEVE they are worthy
of keeping it. Their core beliefs tell
them that they can’t keep the wealth they have amassed. And it certainly becomes easier to BELIEVE
you are worthy of wealth the more wealth you get. That’s why the rich keep getting richer, they
BELIEVE they are deserving of more money.
Every once in a while, there are anomalies. Every once in a while you’ll find someone who
has overcome the most horrific past, who didn’t have loving and supportive
parents who told them they could accomplish anything, every once in a while
there will be a story of great triumph and accomplishment that seems like it
defies all the odds. I think, suspect,
can’t be sure but it seems reasonable to me that those people made a contract
to bring a message to the world before they were born and the Universe moves
heaven and earth despite their belief systems.
I can’t explain those few instances, it’s not my area of expertise. My area of expertise is how African Americans
formed their collective consciousness.
So, every human being on the
planet is deserving of wealth. Not just
some people, not just lucky people, not just the talented intelligent
ones. And the Universe will give wealth
abundance, prosperity, and success to anyone who BELIEVEs they deserve it. EVERYONE.
“There’s not enough money in the world for everyone to be rich.” Sure there is. The Universe is vibrational, it can create
anything. We can create anything because
we are the Universe. We are the exact
same atoms and vibrations that exist in every other thing that exists. The only reason everyone on the planet is not
super wealthy is because they BELIEVE they are deserving of the circumstances
they were born into.
Do I think everyone deserves
wealth and abundance? Unquestionably,
YES! Should everyone manifest wealth
immediately? Probably not. I think that people of African descent should
experience some sort of liberation from their slave mentality before they
manifest wealth. How judgmental does
that sound? Very. I acknowledge that. But everyone reading this has to remember
that we are victims (not a bad word) of a brainwashing and conditioning that is
unhealthy for us. I would love for us to
release at least one stronghold that Eurocentric culture has imposed on
us. I want us to be healthy spiritually,
emotionally, mentally, and psychologically, not just financially. Capitalism is a manifestation of Caucasian
greed, the entire system was created to further their belief that they were
more deserving than anyone else. If
everyone were to start manifesting wealth and abundance, if everyone were to
become rich overnight, there would still exist within people of African descent
born in America a mentality of dysfunction.
Being healed shouldn’t be a prerequisite of being wealthy, and it’s
not. The Universe doesn’t care if you
are emotionally or mentally healthy, but there are consequences for everything
and without a modicum of healing, the Universe and all the energy contained
within is going to have an equal and opposite reaction to the imbalance of financial
versus spiritual growth.
OK, so let’s get to manifesting,
shall we? First and foremost, we have to
start believing that we are deserving of bigger and better things. We have to start believing that we are
deserving of a better job than one that just pays the bills and we’re miserable. We have to start believing that we are better
than the abusive relationships that we keep manifesting. Let’s start affirming together, “I am
deserving of true and abiding love, a relationship that nurtures and fulfills
me.” Keep repeating it. Say it over and over until ugly stuff about
your past comes up. Keep saying it until
you pass the tests that you keep getting where you keep making the same
mistakes over and over again. Tell
yourself that you are beautiful in your soul, that you deserve anything you
want just because you have breath in your lungs. Be appreciative of the things you have, give
thanks, those things are great. But the
most important thing for you to do is BELIEVE that you are deserving.
I AM deserving of Love.
I AM deserving of wealth.
I AM deserving of a better
car.
Visualize your life with your new
car but do more than that. Don’t just
see yourself with a new car, tell yourself that you don’t have to do, be, or
earn a damn thing in order to have it that you deserve it just because you are
alive, just because you have breath in your lungs, just because you want
it. You tell the Universe, “HEY! Give me my stuff. I deserve it.
I’m worthy of the things I want for no other reason than I want them.” Tell yourself that you are beautiful, that
you are smart, that you are a nice person.
Tell yourself that even though you’ve made mistakes that doesn’t mean
you aren’t deserving. Wrap yourself in
love. Tell your inner child, tell
yourself as a child that you are infinitely deserving. Make it your mantra and let’s see how fast
the Universe moves heaven and earth to bring us our desires.
Ashe
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