AfroerotiK

Erotic provocateur, racially-influenced humanist, relentless champion for the oppressed, and facilitator for social change, Scottie Lowe is the brain child, creative genius and the blood, sweat, and tears behind AfroerotiK. Intended to be part academic, part educational, and part sensual, she, yes SHE gave birth to the website to provide people of African descent a place to escape the narrow-mined, stereotypical, limiting and oft-times degrading beliefs that abound about our sexuality. No, not all Black men are driven by lust by white flesh or to create babies and walk away. No, not all Black women are promiscuous welfare queens. And as hard as it may be to believe, no, not all gay Black men are feminine, down low, or HIV positive. Scottie is putting everything on the table to discuss, debate, and dismantle stereotypes in a healthy exchange of ideas. She hopes to provide a more holistic, informed, and enlightened discussion of Black sexuality and dreams of helping couples be more open, honest, and adventurous in their relationships.

Showing posts with label phone sex. Show all posts
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Sunday, January 14, 2018

Phone Sex Like You've Never Experienced Before

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Many of you have read my interracial domination stories and you’re curious about me but are you intimidated by me? Are you afraid of what you may become if I dominate you? You should be; and for good reason. I’m more psychologically sadistic, more inherently superior to you than you can wrap your mind around. I am sexually aroused by breaking men of your arrogance, your ignorance, your smug, fucking condescension. It turns me on to see men groveling and crying and transformed into a thing of my creation. I’m superior to you, in every conceivable way. I’ve said it before, I will say it again. I am not a believer in or supporter of theories of Black or female supremacy even though I am Black, female, and infinitely and inherently superior. If I were to dominate you, I would recreate you in the way that I see fit and you really have no say over it. I’d respect your limits but I doubt you have many. I’m a Black Domme, a quite remarkable one at that. The vast and overwhelming majority of you reading this are not worthy to be my sub.
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DO NOT expect sexual/fantasy roleplay when you call me. I will not pretend to be aroused nor will I pretend to masturbate to feed your ego. Assisting your need to habitually pull your pathetic dick is of no interest to me whatsoever. If you are expecting me to provide you with typical and mundane phone sex, don't waste your time or mine and call someone else who is decidely more average. What I will do is engage you in explicit, hardcore conversation about your fantasies and fetishes, we can discuss sex and sexuality in all its facets; I will gladly share my insights into race and display my ability to psychologically manipulate you. You can ask me personal questions and I will answer them honestly unless I decide they are offensive or invasive questions. I will ask you very personal and intimate questions in an effort to get to know you and to humiliate and degrade you. I know way more about you and your nature than you know about yourself. I know things you've never told another human being. If I decide to end the conversation abruptly and tell you not to call me back it's because I find you boring and predictable. Antagonistic and obnoxious assholes will be blocked. If you are intelligent, articulate, sufficiently respectful of my superiority, willing to divest yourself of your inherent biases and racism, decidely and unapologetically perverted and depraved, and we establish a rapport and chemistry through in-depth and honest conversation, it's entirely possible that you will stir my juices and arouse me. The incredibly lucky son of a bitch who can accomplish that very well may get my sincere and authentic masturbation, not faked, not for your benefit but entirely for my pleasure. It will be a privilege afforded to a very select few exceptional callers. Most of you will not be allowed that honor but you can certainly dream. I ONLY dominate white men. Men of color, any color are invited to call but understand that I will not inflict the brutal, cruel type of punishment I love to administer to white submissives.

Saturday, September 05, 2009

Phone Bone

I've come to accept that I might not ever share my bed with a true partner. A true partner is someone who appreciates me, accepts me, someone who loves me for all that I am. My bed might only ever provide temporary refuge for men who feel a connection but fear the connection. It's very possible my lovers will be men who leave me feeling insecure and ugly, questioning my value and worth as a woman, a lover, and a partner.

But I am a woman with needs and desires that go unfulfilled for months and even years at a time. I long to feel desired and loved just like any other human being. I don't have casual sex; I can't go out to the club on a Friday night and meet someone I'm attracted to. I've learned the hard way that I can't go on a dating site and find someone with whom I share chemistry and connection.

I find comfort, safety, and release occasionally in phone sex. In the familiarity of my own bed, practicing the safest possible sex, thanks to AT&T, I can experience the intimacy, love and connection I desire. The men need not be perfect. I can pretend there in the dark that he is my ideal lover. His voice can caress me, his words can satisfy my hungers. I can touch myself and pretend that my dream lover tenderly, sweetly, gently delivers each and every stroke.

Phone sex is my only outlet. It's the only form of sex I can seem to have and not have crippling guilt and remorse afterwards. The longer I'm alone the more I realize how essential physical connection is. Every time I have sex with someone undeserving of my body and my love, I feel like I have to punish myself. I feel like I need to revirginize myself and go without sex for painfully long periods of time in order to purge myself of my "sin" of weakness. It's my weakness to my urges that I know are human and normal and natural that haunt me. With phone sex, I have no such angst, that disappointment in myself. My phone lovers aren't real so I can let down my hair and be primal and feral and never feel an ounce of remorse. I feel lonely afterwards, that's for sure, but FAR less than I do when I have sex with and I know that when he leaves my bed, he may not return.

My phone lovers, too, are few and far between. To be honest, most men are not great at making love to a woman's mind so it stands to reason that the skills needed to seduce a woman over the phone are underdeveloped as well. I don't want to be called a bitch; I don't want to hear fake and contrived scenarios. I just want a man to tell me how much he desires me, my body, my personal brand of pleasure. I want to experience his private pleasure with his words and sounds. I want to dance to images in my head sung to a poetic sonata of sensual bliss. I want to cum together and cry out in the night and feel that bond.

Ideally, I would be able to find a man who wants me and who is a great communicator and we could supplement our amazing sex life with occasional phone sex to keep things spicy. Minus that, I will have to find satisfaction in cellular love.