AfroerotiK

Erotic provocateur, racially-influenced humanist, relentless champion for the oppressed, and facilitator for social change, Scottie Lowe is the brain child, creative genius and the blood, sweat, and tears behind AfroerotiK. Intended to be part academic, part educational, and part sensual, she, yes SHE gave birth to the website to provide people of African descent a place to escape the narrow-mined, stereotypical, limiting and oft-times degrading beliefs that abound about our sexuality. No, not all Black men are driven by lust by white flesh or to create babies and walk away. No, not all Black women are promiscuous welfare queens. And as hard as it may be to believe, no, not all gay Black men are feminine, down low, or HIV positive. Scottie is putting everything on the table to discuss, debate, and dismantle stereotypes in a healthy exchange of ideas. She hopes to provide a more holistic, informed, and enlightened discussion of Black sexuality and dreams of helping couples be more open, honest, and adventurous in their relationships.

Monday, March 19, 2007

The womanist theory



I’m always amazed at how quickly Black women embrace the term womanist and reject the term feminist. You hear the same argument all the time, “White women have commandeered the feminist movement for their own agenda so I consider myself a womanist because of what Alice Walker wrote about in her book, “In Search of our Mother’s Gardens.” Here’s the news flash. White people commandeer everything to fit their agenda, there’s nothing new there, and Alice walker didn’t come up with a womanist theory, she wrote “womanist prose” a term to describe the soulfulness and struggle of Black women. Black women are so terrified of being called lesbian and so afraid of offending patriarchal Black men with the term feminist, that they’ve embraced the term womanist and it’s gone unchecked.

What’s the difference between a feminist and a womanist? Well, a womanist is more concerned with Black issues. Does that mean that we need to come up with a different name for Democrat since I’m more concerned with Black issues than white Democrats? Well, a womanist is more concerned with the family. Well, white women get married more than Black women so the womanist movement isn’t being particularly effective, are they? Entire bodies of study have been created at universities all over the nation in order to appease the insecurities of Black women who are terrified of being called a feminist for fear that someone is going to assume they have hairy legs and wear flannel. God forbid a Black woman stands up and says, I am a woman and I am a feminist.

Feminists work to dismantle the social, political, and economic disparity between the genders. Feminists aren’t lesbians, although they can be, feminists don’t hate men although we certainly have a right to hate their privilege. Feminists aren’t “against the family,” as so many Black women want to imply. Feminists simply take a stand against the oppression and tyranny of women under the auspices of men being somehow inherently superior. Black women weaken our movement by catering to the irrational fears of Black men. You can not be a warrior in the struggle if you are starting your crusade from a place of concession. If you refer to yourself as a womanist, you’ve already said to the world, “I don’t want to be equal to men because I don’t want them mad at me for being a feminist.”

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Love your blog!

xoxoxox

Temple said...

Scottie,
I'm a Womanist & I don't give a flying f___ what black men, black women or white women think of me identifying as such.

My refusal to be used by black men, black female sympathizers of black men, white women or black sympathizers of white women, is what motivates me to identify as Womanist. The only agenda that I will EVER uphold & identify with is one that propels women of color & their children--black or biracial--forward & away from the misogyny of black men & the race supremacy of white people (including white women). Women of color--especially black women-- are invisible to white females who cling to their racial priviledge & black males who cling to their gender priviledge. White women & black men are using their race or gender priviledge to assert their superiority over any & all women of color. Women of color are an [in]convenience to further the agendas of these groups. There's much proof of this that black women refuse to acknowledge. Who benefitted most from the feminist movements in the past? Who benefitted most from the civil rights movement? No matter the skin or reproductive similarities, today black women have almost nothing in common with these two groups.

You've made your choice & I've made mine. I don't judge you so don't judge me.
Tina