AfroerotiK

Erotic provocateur, racially-influenced humanist, relentless champion for the oppressed, and facilitator for social change, Scottie Lowe is the brain child, creative genius and the blood, sweat, and tears behind AfroerotiK. Intended to be part academic, part educational, and part sensual, she, yes SHE gave birth to the website to provide people of African descent a place to escape the narrow-mined, stereotypical, limiting and oft-times degrading beliefs that abound about our sexuality. No, not all Black men are driven by lust by white flesh or to create babies and walk away. No, not all Black women are promiscuous welfare queens. And as hard as it may be to believe, no, not all gay Black men are feminine, down low, or HIV positive. Scottie is putting everything on the table to discuss, debate, and dismantle stereotypes in a healthy exchange of ideas. She hopes to provide a more holistic, informed, and enlightened discussion of Black sexuality and dreams of helping couples be more open, honest, and adventurous in their relationships.

Saturday, April 15, 2006

Shit ain't Changed

Black people are hysterical. We really are a comical people. We have internalized racism to the point of insanity and we justify it, throwing logic out the window. Somehow, Black people have been convince that the N word is now a term of affection simply because it can be heard on the radio and TV, we now think that the word has a positive meaning. Some uniformed clown said, "oh, we changed the meaning of the word," and everyone said, "Ohhh, yeah, we changed the meaning." The meaning of the word hasn't changed one bit since we first landed on these shores. We might USE it as a term of affection but that’s a far cry from the meaning the word being changed. If a woman says, "That nigga didn't pay his child support," or, “girl, that nigga don’t have a job,” I'm almost positive that she doesn't mean it as a term of endearment. When Chris Rock does his Black people vs niggers, I can promise you that he doesn't mean wonderful person. Pay attention to how the word is used on a daily basis. It’s not used interchangeably with my dear brother, it is used as a way of saying black man. How has that changed from slavery? The meaning of the word hasn't changed. The only thing that has changed is the FCC ruling that says that it can't be said on TV.

Name one other word, in the English language or any other, that started out with a negative meaning and was changed to mean something positive. Name one. Black people used the word after slavery to refer to each other because that is all they knew to refer to themselves as. At no point in history did the meaning of the word change. The only thing that has changed is that you can now turn on the radio and here the word. White record execs are the masterminds behind the mainstreaming of the word, not some underground movement by Black people to change the connotation of the word. Do not fool yourself into thinking that we as a people made some sort on conscious decision to take the negativity out of the word. The word is now and will always be – NEGATIVE. I missed that meeting when we as a people decided to turn the word into a positive word with lots of love behind it. Who was in attendance at that meeting? Jay-Z, Ludacris , oh no, I guess it was Diddy and Snoop? I guess Dr. King wasn‘t at the meeting. Certainly, Malcolm X, Medgar Evers, all the slain civil rights leaders of our history weren‘t there either.

I want to vote again. THE WORD NIGGER IS A VILE AND DISGUSTING WORD. Just because we use it commonly, does not mean that it is now positive. We need not even go back to slavery to find the abhorrent use of the word. My mother was imprisoned for demonstrating in the sixties. She was spit upon until her dress was ripping with spit. Read that again, dripping with spit. She risked her life so that we would not be called NIGGER and now it is on every song on the radio. My grandfather was a civil rights leader, he affected the lives of thousands. I have never heard him, to this very day, use the word when referring to another black person. NEVER! But I guess because Kanye does, than it is a term of affection. Right!

I find it very hard to believe that as creative as we are, that we can't find one other word to use that means brother. We have to defend the word that our ancestors were called when they hung from trees, their flesh ripped from their bodies with the whip.

3 comments:

Shawn said...

Gosh I hate hearing black folk use that word. You are right it's not a term of endearment. Its sad that many buy into the theory that its now a term of endearment...

Andy said...

The Hip Hop Culture that populised the word is now an almost facist institution where deviation from the the materialisticly obsessed, female degrading, shallow lifestyle seems to equal a lack of achievement in the rap game. I was (still am) a huge white Tupac fan and he defined NIGGA as Never Ignorant Getting Goals Accomplished, which of course put a postive spin on the word. Correct me if I'm wrong but Black people have used the word to talk about themselves for so long it has become synonomous as part of their identity. So why not in some way make it positive if white and black people use it anyway? Although when talking about a whole group it can't be always positive and at heart it is used negatively by blk people. Racism changes over time, white people in power will still harbour racism, but it will be undercover racism or on attack on blk culture or stupid stereotypes (racism and stereotyping are a result of a lazy/idiotic/ignorant mind anyway). I'm sorry about your mother and fathers trials and tribulations but they were surely striving for something greater than the abolition of the N word - civil rights achieved far more than that. Afroerotik I joined upto Google blogs just to post here as I think your page is a beautiful insightful thing.

AfroerotiK said...

You are very wrong. The only reason Black people have used it for so long, and in such a common way, is because WHITE PEOPLE CALLED US THAT IN SLAVERY. It's how were were taught for generations to refer to ourselves and it was negative then and it's still negative now. How dare you suggest that the meaning of the word has changed because of some dumb ass Tupac poem. How dare you negate the history of the word down to some anachronym when you can never know the pain of the word, you will never comprehend why we use it, and how detrimental it is to us when we do. And if I'm out and I hear you rapping along to 50cent and you say the word, I'm smashing a glass upside your head.