When I was a child, I thought as a child, when I became a woman . . . the theory is supposed to be that my thoughts and perceptions shifted...

I like to splurge sometimes on life’s little luxuries. It makes me feel sexy to have some of the world’s finest silk caressing my body bene...

The images of African Americans in the adult industry are largely atypical of the true Black experience. The perpetuation of racist and ster...

We embrace calling ourselves niggers, like that’s empowering, when in actuality, it’s disrespectful to our ancestors and just plain ignorant...

I think one of the great failures of African centered thinkers, a group to whom I used to staunchly belong, is the fact that they are tied t...

My dear, sweet, sensuous lover, I woke up in the middle of the night last night. I had the most incredible dream. It seemed so real, so li...

There’s a HORRIBLE song, musically that is, that touts the virtues of being a promiscuous woman. We, as women of color, have been socialize...

Black men are going to Brazil in droves to experience uninhibited sex with the women there. To hear them tell the tale, the women there are ...

Or Debunking the Fallacy of White Supremacy I’ve come to understand that there are certain Black people who believe that white men have supe...

This is like a bad broken record. "I'm a good black man, I have a job, I have an education, and the reason why the Black community...

I was asked to answer the following questions on love because, supposedly, I’m a thinker. Here are the questions and my responses. 1. What ...

If communication is the recipe for a healthy relationship, romance and intimacy are the key ingredients. For most men, the concept of genui...

Haunted Past and Untreated Wounds There’s a man. He has a terrible secret. His shame and pain haunt him. His secret eats at his very soul...

This is not a letter to Michael, it is an ode; my ode to the boy who helped shape my identity. I will be the first to admit that I was not a...

I had a guy friend once who had two small daughters. He would take his daughters to work with him, he would pick them up from school, they ...

Facing the foot of the bed, she climbed on top of him and placed her pussy just inches from his mouth. It was a thing of beauty to behold; ...

Is it possible to be in love with a man for his hands? Well, I’m not in love with him FOR his hands, he’s an amazing man without question b...