Recently, I got an inquiry from a young lady who had some questions about my recent essay, What Scottie Wants (http://http://afroerotik.blog...

I consider myself somewhat of an elitist; I’m not entertained by the same sorts of things that hold the masses captive. I gave up televisio...

It’s that time of year again. Every Spring, it never fails, my sexuality is awakened like the return of the birds and the bees and the flow...

Anal sex has long been considered a taboo and forbidden sexual practice. It has supposedly led to the destruction of cities and has been lo...

Relationships, at least here in the self-centered West, have a specific pattern. When a couple meets, they feel each other out, they date, ...

I recently read a deluded and sad “Letter to a Black Feminist” by a gentleman who blamed feminists for . . . well, basically, anything and e...

I've come to accept that I might not ever share my bed with a true partner. A true partner is someone who appreciates me, accepts me, s...

When I was a child, I thought as a child, when I became a woman . . . the theory is supposed to be that my thoughts and perceptions shifted...

The images of African Americans in the adult industry are largely atypical of the true Black experience. The perpetuation of racist and ster...

We embrace calling ourselves niggers, like that’s empowering, when in actuality, it’s disrespectful to our ancestors and just plain ignorant...

I think one of the great failures of African centered thinkers, a group to whom I used to staunchly belong, is the fact that they are tied t...

There’s a HORRIBLE song, musically that is, that touts the virtues of being a promiscuous woman. We, as women of color, have been socialize...

Black men are going to Brazil in droves to experience uninhibited sex with the women there. To hear them tell the tale, the women there are ...