Erotic provocateur, racially-influenced humanist, relentless champion for the oppressed, and facilitator for social change, Scottie Lowe is the brain child, creative genius and the blood, sweat, and tears behind AfroerotiK. Intended to be part academic, part educational, and part sensual, she, yes SHE gave birth to the website to provide people of African descent a place to escape the narrow-mined, stereotypical, limiting and oft-times degrading beliefs that abound about our sexuality. No, not all Black men are driven by lust by white flesh or to create babies and walk away. No, not all Black women are promiscuous welfare queens. And as hard as it may be to believe, no, not all gay Black men are feminine, down low, or HIV positive. Scottie is putting everything on the table to discuss, debate, and dismantle stereotypes in a healthy exchange of ideas. She hopes to provide a more holistic, informed, and enlightened discussion of Black sexuality and dreams of helping couples be more open, honest, and adventurous in their relationships.
Sunday, May 25, 2014
Wednesday, May 21, 2014
Let's say you relegate yourself to only looking at one particular site and you only look at your particular favorite genre (which I don't believe for a second because everyone is curious about what other people are doing sexually). The website is still going to have ads and pop ups and recommended videos that indicate that there is a whole helluva lot of sexual activity going on that people are in denial about. I can't go on a porn site without seeing those ads with CGI images of little girls having sex. CLEARLY, that website is making a shitload of money because the ads are everywhere. That speaks volumes about how rampant pedophilia is in this country and people are acting like it doesn't exist.
I am so glad that I'm not ashamed of my sexuality. I'm so glad that I have no need to compartmentalize my sexuality, that I don't act one way behind closed door and then go online and pretend that I'm asexual and that anything other than missionary sex on a Friday night with the lights out is disgusting. I would hate to be so sexually repressed that I couldn't see what's going on right in plain site. I know good and god damn well that if I can go online and see amateur doing EVERYTHING, and I mean everything, I know that means that there are an infinite number of people who are not videoing their behavior, who would never post it online. Yet, society is still telling us that people are asexual, that sex is dirty and bad and that vanilla sex for procreation is the only viable form of sex. If you are that ashamed of your sexuality, if you are in that much denial, it's going to lead you to do things behind closed doors to compensate. That, ladies and gentlemen, is the reason people are so fucked up sexually.